Category: forgiveness

It’s about the living capacity people have to forgive, though many of us resist forgiveness because of the feeling that we may be letting a significant other or others off the hook of justice and betraying our obligations to our ancestors or our collective past. Many of us resist forgiving because we have been so badly hurt within our family or group and fear forgetting our pain and suffering. if we let go of our beliefs and grievances. Forgiveness is not about forgetting, it is about releasing and surrendering the pain embedded in our memory. Our resistance to being able to forgive holds us back with the weight of the past and stops us from fully and freely expressing ourselves with our gifts and talents today. Surrendering our pain and asking for forgiveness can be done at any time in this healing process.

  • Trustbuilding and Collective-Healing

    Trustbuilding and Collective-Healing

    International Seminar on trust-building and Collective Healing, 30th October 2019, London

    Hosted by Initiatives of Change trust-building Programme in partnership with the GHFP Research Institute, this international seminar offered a unique opportunity to meet, share and discuss the process of building trust.

    At a time of increasing fragmentation, trust is diminishing around the world. Communities face racial, ethnic and religious divides, intergenerational conflict, and the rise of extremist attitudes, as well as social divisions and the legacy of war. The Seminar poses a critical question: “How can we address these challenges?”

    Among the discussants was Letlapa Mphahlele, commander of the Azanian People’s Liberation Army during apartheid times. His anger was such that he ordered retaliatory massacres of white civilians. After a radical transformation he now sees the whole of humanity as ‘my people’. Letlapa, who, until 2013, was President of the Pan Africanist Congress and a Member of the South African Parliament, is a protagonist in the award-winning film, Beyond Forgiving, which depicts a profound story of tragedy, forgiveness and hope.

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  • 5-step-peace-process

    5-step-peace-process

    The following 5-step towards peace process has been developed by Alexandra Asseily.

    Step One: Taking Responsibility
    The first step is to take responsibility for one’s own part in any conflict, imbalance, tension, grievance or problem with courage, honesty, and humility, even if one does not feel personally involved in conflict.

    Step Two: Asking and Reflecting
    The second step is to ask a number of questions, examples are given in ‘my responsibility for peace’.

    Step Three: Releasing, surrendering and forgiving
    The third step is to understand the power of forgiveness and compassion. By understanding and allowing for forgiveness of oneself and others, including our ancestors and our collective past, we can let go of guilt, shame and fear. We then no longer need to uphold the same grievances from one generation to another. As we forgive others, we forgive ourselves and vice-versa.

    Step Four: To understand our authentic selves
    The fourth step is to understand the changes we can make in order and speak with our ‘inner’ cohesive authority and thereby helping us to promote harmony and peace in the world.

    Step Five: Sharing
    The fifth step is to go out and share this healing process with others.

    This process in practice can transform ourselves, others and our communities.

  • Charter for Forgiveness

    Charter for Forgiveness

    Charter for Forgiveness and Reconciliation
    International Symposium on Forgiveness and Reconciliation,
    2 April 2014, Nishkam Centre, Birmingham, UK

    A very successful Symposium co-sponsored by the Fetzer Institute, the Guru Nanak Nishkam Sewak Jatha (GNNSJ) and the Guerrand-Hermes Foundation for Peace took place on 2 April in Birmingham, UK.

    Leading thinkers and activists from many peacemaking and reconciliation organizations gathered in Birmingham both for networking and for the preparation of future collaborative activities. The event was led by Bhai Sahib Bhai Mohinder Singh, spiritual leader and Chairman of GNNSJ and Co-convenor of the Charter for Forgiveness and Reconciliation Project and by Dr. Josef Boehle, Director of the Charter Project. Dr William F. Vendley, Secretary General of Religions for Peace International is also a Co-convenor of the Charter project.

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    The day’s agenda for discussion about the development of the Charter for Forgiveness and Reconciliation included deliberations on some key questions and critical issues such as the role for forgiveness within the contexts of justice, reconciliation and peace-building.

    The Symposium served as a springboard to action on establishing the Charter for Forgiveness and Reconciliation in 2015. The proposed Charter aims to inspire and engage individuals, groups and communities, in public processes and in private settings, appealing to humanity to practice genuine forgiveness and reconciliation, seeking justice and sustainable peace.

    The proposed Charter for Forgiveness and Reconciliation will draw upon values, stories and examples from sacred texts and from different spiritual traditions, from religious/spiritual communities, and from the lives of outstanding individuals. With such paradigms, the Charter will direct commitment and activities towards a growing practice of forgiveness and reconciliation which humanity desperately needs in a fractured world.

    The draft text for the Charter for Forgiveness and Reconciliation is now being developed. The whole collaborative chartering process is likely to take a number of years, to allow for substantial input from a wide range of worldviews, backgrounds, expertise and insights.
    The vision behind the Charter for Forgiveness and Reconciliation is that forgiving is an activity necessary for healing and reconciliation to take place, when seeking justice and sustainable peace.

  • Healing, Forgiveness and Reconciliation, Seminar 2013

    Healing, Forgiveness and Reconciliation, Seminar 2013

    25th October 2013.
    Guerrand-Hermès Foundation for Peace,

    Healing, Forgiveness, Reconciliation. These concepts are often used interchangeably in discussions, for example about post-conflict peacebuilding. The distinctions between the terms is not clear by nuance, how they relate to each-other, and how such relationships are played out in the dynamic of interventions towards peace. It is therefore necessary to develop an appropriate clarity of understanding of these terms to help shape our work in fostering harmonious relationships and in analysing the task of rebuilding communities in divided societies.

    Furthermore, for peace-building processes aimed at healing, forgiveness and reconciliation, there may be a whole range of contiguous analytical factors to identify and understand.  For instance, in looking at the nature and roots of conflict, it is necessary to acquire a workable comprehension of the local cultural norms, power relationships, historical narratives and memories, politics, social policy, and religious and spiritual practices. All these invariably affect the individual and large group identities, which could further determine people’s perceptions of and attitudes towards the other, and the ways they related to each other in post-conflict societies.

    Additionally, the dimensions of moral and ethical principles must also be considered in framing any emergent culture of peace, and in working towards underpinning relation-formation within the society, including the perennial tension between justice, forgiveness and reconciliation. So, showing with clarity how all these factors are interrelated can help us to determine actions and interventions aimed at healing, forgiveness and reconciliation.

    There is, moreover, a wide diversity of perspectives and disciplines from which and through which a professional practitioner on the ground could approach post-conflict situations. These can be simultaneously psychological, therapeutic, socio-political, educational, communal, theological, spiritual, legalistic, or rights-based. These all require deliberation, contextual understanding and professionalism.

    While such terminological and analytical complexity may fascinate us, it can also serve to obscure our ideas in theory and our practice. The complexity challenges us to reach for more profound insights into post-conflict peace processes and to work on developing deeper understanding to guide our practice.

    For over a decade, the Guerrand-Hermès Foundation for Peace (GHFP) has been exploring some key concepts in peacebuilding, including those mentioned above. Throughout, for example, our ‘Garden of Forgiveness’ project, the ‘Healing the Wounds of History’ programmes, as well as the narrative strands in our work, we have been concerned with seeking new understanding and clarification. We would like, at this time, to explore these notions through discussion with distinguished colleagues.

    So the two-fold aim of the seminar was:

    • To develop a shared understanding and observation of these concepts.
    • To explore how this understanding can be translated into practices and actions on the ground, and what challenges and opportunities are involved.

    Questions explored:

    • Why are these three concepts important in post-conflict peace-building? Does one need to come first before the others can follow?
    • What kind of intervention work well and what doesn’t with a focus on healing, forgiveness and reconciliation help transform conflict and develop trusting relationships amongst individuals and communities?
    • Are there ways in which the same transformation could take place in a conflict situation before violence breaks out?
    • What shared understanding do we have of the three concepts for post-conflict reconstruction, and peacebuilding in general?

    It is very unusual for a national government to initiate a nationwide campaign aimed at reconciliation, so the nearly twenty years of accumulated experience of the Rwanda National Unity and Reconciliation Commission (NURC) is unique and has a global importance. This is why we have invited Dr Jean Baptiste Habyalimana to give the opening presentation. At the same time, we hope that Jean Baptiste’s reflection on the Rwandan journeys could also provide a nudge to help us expand our thinking and to initiate a conversation around the key questions.

  • Rwanda HWH Conference 2012

    Rwanda HWH Conference 2012

    International Workshops on ‘HEALING THE WOUNDS OF HISTORY: ADDRESSING THE ROOTS OF VIOLENCE’ were proposed jointly by the National Unity and Reconciliation Commission and the Guerrand-Hermès Foundation for Peace, in collaboration with the Mizero Foundation and the Rwandan Professional Dreamers, and with support from the National Commission for the Fight Against Genocide and the National University of Rwanda.

    It was held at Hotel Rwanda in Kigali on June 13-14 2012. The event was opened by Bishop Dr John Rucyahana, the President of Rwanda National Unity & Reconciliation Commission.

    The main aim of the event was to explore the psychological roots of violence in recent Rwanda, and to identify new modalities of healing, reconciliation and forgiveness, between both individuals and groups.

    To learn more about the conference, please visit the official Healing the Wounds of History RWANDA page.

    Healing the Wounds of History RWANDA

  • Lebanon HWH Conference 2011

    Lebanon HWH Conference 2011

    Healing the Wounds of History conference 2011 was the major launch event for an initiative exploring innovative psycho-social approaches to addressing the deeper roots of violence. The goal was to establish constructive relations between the people and communities in present-day Lebanon.

    Review

    HWH Website, HWHARV Facebook page. Concept Paper and Summary of the Keynote Address also the Power Point Presentation given by Professor Vamik Volkan.

    The Conference

    Under the High Patronage of His Excellency, the President of the Council of Ministers, Mr Najib Mikati, the Centre for Lebanese Studies and the Guerrand-Hermès Foundation for Peace, in partnership with the Institute of Diplomacy and Conflict Transformation, organised the International Conference on ‘Healing the Wounds of History: Addressing the Roots of Violence’. The Conference was hosted by the Lebanese American University on 11th to 13th November 2011 at its’ campus situated in the beautiful ancient city of Byblos, Lebanon.

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    to raise awareness about the need to resolve historical grievances as a step towards social harmony in Lebanon and beyond

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    to help people learn more about the diverse approaches to addressing the roots of conflict and cycles of violence in our society

    vision
    to catalyze a process that will implement the key insights and methods from the Conference through a series of nationwide projects that touch all communities